Good day, dear readers of my blog! We discussed the need for goal setting many times, learned to do it correctly and point by point, adhering to the plan and classification. And today, for example and motivation, I have prepared a list of 100 goals in a person’s life, some of the points of which you may find useful and inspiring. After all, if you remember the article "" - such an irresponsible and unconscious way of life can lead to depression. And so, when there is a plan for many years, there is no time to even get sick.
Fundamental rules
For a successful , harmonious development and promotion, and it is for this that a person sets a goal, I have identified 5 main areas, ignoring which will not provide a sense of fullness and quality of life. The main rule is not to keep this list in your head, you must definitely put it on paper. This will give responsibility to the process, and will also remind you of some things that you can completely forget, trying to fulfill the most urgent dreams for this period.
The list can be hung in a room or office so that it is in front of your eyes, or kept from prying eyes if there is information that you do not want to share with others. I wrote out other people's goals, they can serve as examples for you, because everyone has different interests and needs. Just try on each item for yourself and listen to whether it fits or not.
Let me remind you that I write about my goals.
Spheres
1. Spiritual development
To better understand why we need it, I recommend reading the article. In short, I can say that it is thanks to him that we can call ourselves not just a person, but a person, raise our self-esteem and level of self-confidence.
- Practice positive affirmations
- Start/finish learning a foreign language
- Deal with the accumulated grievances, realize them and let go
- Read the Top 100 Development Books
- Listen to your feelings and sensations in order to correctly recognize, every evening remembering at least 5 feelings that you experienced during the day
- Learn to concentrate for a long time by practicing daily meditation
- Take a driving course
- Create a collage with wishes
- Attend church once a week
- Practice the Alpha Visualization Method Daily
- Learn to come to terms with the imperfections of other people, accepting them for who they are
- Realize the meaning of your purpose
- Get to know yourself better by examining yourself using various techniques and noticing your mistakes, analyzing them
- Watch 50 films based on real events and motivating to achieve
- Start keeping a diary, writing down the most significant events and thoughts
- Meet a new and interesting person once a week
- Conquer your fear of public speaking
- Learn to justify your opinion
- Learn sign language and basic manipulation techniques
- Learn to play the guitar
2.Physical development
In order to have enough energy for accomplishments, it is very important to monitor your health and keep fit.- Do the splits
- Learn to walk on your hands
- Go to the gym at least 2 times a week
- Quit drinking, smoking
- Add healthy foods to your diet and minimize fatty and sugary foods
- Go to self-defense courses
- Take daily contrast showers
- Walk for at least 30 minutes a day
- Learn to swim in different styles
- Go to the mountains and go snowboarding
- Visit the sauna once a week
- Try yourself as a vegetarian for a month
- Go hiking all alone for two weeks
- Pass a complete medical examination
- Once every three months, arrange a cleansing diet
- Exercise for 10 minutes in the morning
- Learn to push up with claps and on one hand
- Hold a plank for 5 minutes
- Participate in a marathon
- Lose 5 kilos of extra weight
3.Financial development
- Buy a car
- Create an alternative, passive source of income (to rent an apartment, for example)
- Multiply your monthly income
- Pay off your last bank loan and never get a new one
- Make repairs in the apartment
- Buy a plot on which to build a cottage
- Control waste by making only necessary and intentional purchases, not reacting to marketing tricks in supermarkets
- Create your business
- Save up money and put it in the bank at interest
- Invest in a good idea
- Save money for a round-the-world trip
- Start additional work in the field of IT, in your free time, creating and promoting websites
- Give parents a ticket to the sanatorium
- Give children a good education
- Buy a house on the beach and rent it out
- Annually travel with loved ones to a sanatorium
- Do charity work (donate money for treatment to those in need, distribute toys and unnecessary things)
- Once a month to buy products for nurseries
- Start a charitable organization
- Purchase several hectares of land and lease it to farmers
By the way, if you have financial problems, then I highly recommend watch this series. It will take your financial knowledge to the next level. You can even make it a goal if you want.
21. Improve your financial literacy. (Take a course on financial literacy).
4.Family development
The role of the goal is to strengthen relations with the family, not only one's own, but also the parent's. This is the basis, so to speak, the foundation, thanks to which we accomplish feats and stand up during the difficulties that fate presents.
- Give your wife a small gift or treat every day
- Celebrate your wedding anniversary by the ocean
- Get together for every holiday with the whole family.
- Visit parents on weekends and help with household chores
- babysit grandchildren
- Celebrate your golden wedding with your wife
- Raising children to be happy and loving
- Travel with family
- Every weekend must be spent with the family outside the home, in nature, on a trip or to the cinema.
- Help your son master the martial art and support him at the championships
- Play games with the family on Saturday nights
- Teaching kids to ride a bike
- Once a month, arrange a romantic evening for your wife
- Teach kids to drive and repair a car
- Together with my wife and children, draw a family tree and tell the kids stories about their ancestors that we remember ourselves
- Several times a week, instead of a wife, help children with homework
- Once a month, rent a hotel room with my wife to relax and change the situation together
- Write a thank you letter to your family for a special occasion.
- On weekends, go out to a restaurant, or cook lunch and dinner with the whole family
- Go with your sons to the kennel and choose a dog for them
5.Fun
In order to feel joy and have an interest in life, it is important to take care of yourself, do unexpected things and allow yourself to relax. In this case, the energy will be enough to achieve other goals, and the level of pleasure and the value of life will go off scale. Allow yourself to fulfill even minor fantasies, some childhood dreams, and you will feel how your well-being is changing. What are they, you can see on my examples:
- Stay in Antarctica
- feed the sharks
- Ride in a tank
- Swim with dolphins
- Go to a desert island
- Visit some festival, for example, Oktoberfest in Germany
- Swim in 4 oceans
- Go on a hitchhiking trip
- Visit the base camp at the top of Everest
- Go on a cruise
- Fly in a hot air balloon
- Live in an eco village for a couple of days
- Milk a cow
- Jump with a parachute
- Saddle your own horse
- Travel to Tibet and meet the Dalai Lama
- Stay in Las Vegas
- Ride quad bikes in the desert
- Try scuba diving
- Take a general massage course
Conclusion
Each tick placed in front of some item will bring satisfaction, joy and pride from the fact that he was able to achieve what he wanted. Life is very multifaceted, so add your areas, your options, and to speed up the process of fulfilling your desire, I recommend reading the article. Don't forget to subscribe to blog updates.
As far as possible, I write reports on the achievement of my goals, maybe you will be interested or you just decide to support me with a comment on the article. to my articles about moving towards goals. Good luck and fulfill your dreams!
Sometimes (or often?) we think about our goals in life. But most often we want to highlight something important, significant. And, oddly enough, that's why the work on goals and dreams ends up with a list of several unrealistic platitudes. Not even so much not real, but not supported by motivation, clarity of vision, the desire to invest in these goals and dreams until they are achieved.
Yes, I would like to have my own house. Yes, I want a harmonious and happy family - a money husband, a beautiful and faithful wife, obedient children, parents who respect me ... Yes, I want to have a salary of half a million a month. And to work less. And I want God to always help. And to forgive for sins.
Surely, many people remember the three goals of a man: to raise a son, build a house, plant a tree. Inspiring? Probably only partly. Habitual. Trite. Not unique to me.
This is probably why personal development trainings talk about the importance of writing 100 goals in life or 100 dreams. It is more modest and more popular to limit yourself to a list of 50 goals in life. And therefore, even Yandex gives hints when typing such a request. Looking for!
And it also happens that fantasy is enough for 49 goals, but for the 50th - well, no way! And so people want to see an example, a hint.
But first, let's understand what happens to us when we start WORKING FOR GOALS and try to make a list of 50 goals ourselves.
We begin a dialogue with our conscience, with our original soul, with our deepest inner "I", with that very essence of ourselves, which is often called the "spark of God" embedded in us. We open up. Because with each new item, we analyze again and again how much what we write is REALLY important to us. And we begin to find not just deeper and "uniquely my" goals, but also the motivation to achieve them!
Once, one of the co-founders of Business Youth, Mikhail Dashkiev, said that he had a real insight while talking with his father - Mikhail talked about his success in business and cool cars, and at that time his father, being behind driving an old car stuck at a crossroads... Support your parents! Let the father drive a normal car! I would like to express my gratitude to them for all that they have invested in it! This "stuck" him to the fullest! One moment - and the values of a new depth were opened. But this was also preceded by work on the goals and their achievement.
So, each new ten, perhaps, will reveal a new depth of your values and increase your motivation! And that means full speed ahead!
But if you are still interested in a hint (which you may not like), then here are completely "miscellaneous" 50 goals for someone's life:
1. Create a family
2. Raise children
3. See happy families of children
4. See grandchildren
5. See happy families of grandchildren
6. Build a house
7. Build a children's house with the children
8. Acquire several hectares of land for a house and household, for a kind (dynasty)
9. Plant a tree
10. Plant a garden
11. Plant a park
12. Grow a forest
13. Find yourself
14. Find and develop a relationship with God the Parent
15. Leave a good memory behind
16. Become an inspiration and example for your wife/husband and children
17. Become an inspiration and an example for family and friends
18. Become an inspiration and an example for others (for many)
19. Find a harmonious (balanced) life
20. Explore the world
21. Visit many cities of the Motherland
22. Visit exotic countries
23. Take a photo in front of the Statue of Liberty
24. Take a photo with the Eiffel Tower in the background
25. Learn martial arts
26. Good knowledge of classical literature
27. Good knowledge of classical painting
28. Learn to serve people, support them from the position of an older brother / sister or parent
29. Realize professionally
30. Reach the heights of your career
31. Leave to the descendants a clean ecology of the Planet
32. Make a world discovery
33. Get into the Guinness Book of Records
34. Scuba dive
35. Skydive
36. Take a sea cruise
37. Travel around the world
38. Get a Nobel Prize
39. Raise a child left without parents
40. Become a Bodhisattva
41. Reach Nirvana
42. Fly into space
43. Perform a feat
44. Get a government award
45. Read the Bible
46. Open 3rd eye
47. Learn to communicate with angels
48. Develop telepathic abilities
49. Learn to foresee the future
50. Learn to travel through time
Of course, there is something fantastic here... But the plane was also fantastic, and the ideas of personal computers were not even found among science fiction writers 30 years before their invention!!! Anything you can believe is possible!
Pursuing a goal in life itself is pointless. What matters is what the goal leads to, what values are implemented. There are goals - dreams that everybody wants, and there is little benefit from their achievement. And even more so to put them to no avail - they do not motivate.
Take a look at this list of goals on the MYTH blog:
Goals like these create detrimental motivation.. So you can't set goals. You can go crazy when reaching them, or it’s not at all clear from what fright someone needs them in the present tense.
The list of goals is typical, which is offered to blog readers. The authors, trying to give readers examples of long-term goals, give a set of loops. To strive for such goals without having anything behind them is the inquisition of the remnants of a healthy psyche.
Vital Goals
The goals that we set for ourselves should develop us, bring experience, the growth of awareness and personal responsibility. And do not drive to a psychiatric hospital, intensive care unit or a cemetery.
Vital goals are those the pursuit of which will develop us. To expand our possibilities, increase the feeling of happiness, heal the psyche and relationships with others.
The world needs a hundred space explorers. If someone truly aspires to be an astronaut - go ahead! Better is a happy, wise, responsible person, and at the same time also our messenger from the Earth. Than an astronaut - unhappy, frightened, exercising and tormenting himself, only because he is not ready to love himself and understand his desires.
I am not against struggle and "achievement", but struggle especially with oneself should not be meaningless. There is no need for a pacifier in a spacesuit taking a selfie against the background of the Earth.
The main vital goal of a person is to be healthy physically and psychologically.. There are not so many people who are self-confident, with positive self-esteem, who know their worth and are able to realize their desires. They are able to set themselves the goal of life, to take on the solution of a vital problem for all mankind. They have the courage and strength to solve it and live happily.
Human Development Goals
To realize the goal of life, a person needs average abilities, but not enough average courage. The strength of the mind is needed less than the courage to resist circumstances and the prejudices of others.
A person is not effective at achieving a goal that does not lead him to something greater than the goal itself.. Therefore, it is so important to practice understanding your desires, needs, values, know your strengths and be able to work for pleasure.
Set short-term goals for self-exploration, searching for your undiscovered talents. Learn to overcome preconceptions about yourself and what you already "know". Develop self-confidence, form an opinion based on personal experience. Develop courage and ability to work. You will need all this when you are ready to solve an important problem, implement a complex project.
Example: list of 50 targets
Coming up with goals can be difficult if there is little practice and awareness. Therefore, it is useful to look at examples of common developmental goals, and adapt the ones you like.
We offer examples that lead to the development of the individual, to the acquisition of experience, the expansion of ideas about oneself and the universe. It is desirable to have something else behind these goals, but they will develop you anyway if you decide to achieve them. Collected goals that are more environmentally friendly for our little head.
Health, sports
- Draw an infographic of your health.
- Swim 500 meters. Dive 8 meters.
- Eliminate 2-3 harmful foods from your diet.
- Run 10 km.
- For a whole week there is only homemade food.
- Strengthen your position in life I'm fine, others are fine.
- Learn to play table and tennis.
- Rocking chair. Work out for 2-3 months. Get a rank.
Goals for work and career. Financial Goals
- To understand the element of one's vocation: a person is a person, a person is a machine, a person is symbols.
- Double your income.
- Live a week without urgent matters (out of vacation).
- Passive income. 100$+ / month
- Work in a company. The goals of the company help to realize your dreams.
- Financial control. Record expenses and income for six months.
- Gain experience in hiring and firing employees.
environment, friends
- Public performance. Perform in front of an audience of 30+ people.
- Get to know each other.
- Be able to listen to the interlocutor.
- Host a board game night.
Personal relationships, family
- Attend group therapy training with an experienced psychologist. Make up your mind.
- Love is life-affirming. Heal neuroticism.
- Marry or marry for love.
- Go into the role of a father or mother. Raise, not educate a child.
- Arrange a "spontaneous" trip.
Rest, brightness of life
- Stay on another continent.
- Swim in two oceans.
- Live 2+ months in an unfamiliar country.
- Be spontaneous. Don't be afraid to look stupid.
- King of the Hill - climb the pyramid.
Personal development goals, intelligence
- Read 12+ non-fiction papers in a year.
- Get a driver's license. Ride the serpentine.
- Learn English. Speaking level is above average.
- Learn a second foreign language at a basic level.
- Achieve a 70%+ achievement target for the year.
- Write 10 articles.
- Dine at the top restaurant in the city and leave no tip.
Creation
- Learn to draw. Write 5 pictures.
- Choose a hobby and think about how to get income from it in the future.
- Know how to dance. Dance a staged dance 1+ minute.
- Sing a song in karaoke or in the studio.
- Learn to play a musical instrument. Play a melody on the flute, keys, guitar, drums.
- Creativity handmade. Crafts from paper, fabric, clay, plasticine, leather.
Spirituality
- Develop the ability to overcome conviction. To learn something new, of which I was so sure.
- The ability to overcome an old habit. Retrain yourself in something.
- Formulate your purpose.
- Practice meditation. Take a course or seminar.
- Bring the wheel of balance of life in 7-10 points.
- Read the New Testament. Form an opinion.
- Learn to overcome fears. Overcome 5 fears.
- Get an unconventional experience. Astrology, out-of-body experiences, constellations.
life goals for a man
Business is the main goal to which a man devotes his time. Without work, he is incompetent.
Ideally, this is some kind of enterprise with a humanistic idea, aimed at helping and developing other people.
It is vital for male nature to explore the world, capture territories (markets), compete with others, promote new products and services. By realizing his undertaking, a man realizes himself in this world. The case is the second face of a real man.
One of the most important goals in a man's life is his BUSINESS..
List of examples of goals for a man and a guy for 5-10 years:
- Explore business management techniques from your own experience.
- Set yourself 50 intermediate or medium-term goals and achieve them.
- Develop the company to a turnover of $1 million
- Create a service that makes life easier for other men.
- Become an expert in your specialization.
The most important goals of a woman
A woman is not obliged to raise money for the family. This is a man's concern. A woman can also do business. The main thing is that this does not become her main job. She can do her job for the soul, but remain true to her feminine nature.
The vital goals of a woman are in the areas of: relationships, beauty, home comfort, giving love to the world, spiritual practices. Family and childcare for a woman is in the most important place. This makes her happier.
Examples of life long-term goals for girls:
- Become a spiritual midwife. Promote Natural Birth.
- Open a mental health center.
- Help other women, build harmonious relationships.
- To inspire a man to exploits in his work.
- Become a teacher by vocation.
- To be an example for girls - what a woman of age can be.
- Explore alternative points of view on the question "What does it mean to be a woman."
List of women's goals for the year:
- Lotus birth of a child.
- Creative development: dancing, music, painting.
- Create a blog. Debunk myths about child development.
- Go on a journey and write an adventure novel.
- Learn interior design.
- Learn to sew. Design your collection.
- Be happy. Clear your emotional blocks.
How to write your 50 goals in life - the answer
Make lists of example goals and ideas. Bring in all sorts of different dreams and goals. Break goals into categories: short-term (up to 1 month), medium-term (1 year) and long-term (2-5 years). When you accumulate 50 or more goals, re-sort them, add important ones to your list of goals for the year. I keep lists on Evernote and in a notepad.
To determine your goals, we recommend the exercise "50 goals and 50 desires". First you need to determine the circle of your desires, start to realize them. Then, where you most want to continue working - look for a more global goal. The ideal is to look for a problem, a need of mankind and satisfy it.
Formulate not just selfish goals in life, but also aimed at benefiting people. The goal of "Become a famous chef" will not bring such satisfaction as the organization of a children's center. The very wording “Become famous” speaks of an unhealthy psyche, of dislike in childhood. If you suddenly want fame, first satisfy your need for love. So save the world after you save yourself. First, cultivate strong egoism, and altruism will appear on its own, there is no need to force it.
The ideal goal of human life is when you give yourself to the universe and enjoy it. All you need is the freedom to do what you like. You do not have to receive approval, recognition and fame. It is not necessary to know five languages to earn respect and admiration. You feel good both alone and in a team, doing what you think is right.
Choose your vital goals and get on your way.
do you think a lot? On the contrary, the more life goals, the more complete life will be. The more events that happen in our lives, the more memories will warm our hearts in old age.
I often imagine myself as a kind of 90-year-old man and delve into my thoughts. What will that gray-haired old man think of his life? Will he not have to suffer on the verge of his being for wasted time?
Before, this fantasy excited me especially strongly. However, with the help of constant reflection and meditation, I came to the conclusion that if I set and achieve it, then definitely life will not be lived in vain.
However, today it dawned on me - she must not be alone, I must have , or even more! One goal is not capable of fully unlocking the potential of a person. Only when he reveals himself in many areas, there comes satisfaction with life. And the more complex these goals are, the more full and expressive life will be.
One of the chapters of the book "A Whole Life" prompted me to this idea. On the whole, the book is, of course, mediocre, but it was this section that hooked me. It tells the story of John Goddard, who at the age of fifteen sat down and made a list of 127 life goals that he absolutely must achieve. These were completely different goals: from conquering snowy peaks to learning foreign languages. The most interesting thing is that by the age of fifty he has already achieved 100 of his goals and feels incredibly happy. Surely he knows.
John Goddard was once asked a question: "What inspired you to create such a huge list?". Smiling slightly, Goddard replied: “Two reasons. First, I was raised by adults who kept telling me what I should and shouldn't do in life. Secondly, I didn’t want to understand at the age of fifty that I had actually achieved nothing. ”.
Of course, this is a very risky option, because you never know what can catch us in life. Our interests can change, we can get stuck in debt or just give up on self-development and "take everything from life"(quotes same). That is why the importance of becoming the main life goal that would dominate everyone does not disappear.
50 human life goals- this is the way to achieve happiness and harmony with oneself. After all, we can set goals for our various roles. Set a life goal as a family man, businessman, teacher, blogger, etc. In addition, you can set life goals in terms of spiritual, economic and social development.
What goal will you choose today?
That is, we have a huge potential for action. We know exactly what we need, it remains only to choose solutions. By the way, we will talk about how to do this in the following articles, so do not forget to subscribe to updates.
By the way, it is not necessary that all 50 life goals are important. These may be less significant achievements, which, however, will bring incomparable happiness and will be a kind of support for achieving other 50 vital goals.
Well, for example: I want to enroll my children in a prestigious university (for example, Moscow State University). I also want to grow a huge oak tree in our garden. Of course, oak is not such an important goal as the education of children, but if I achieve my goal, I will be a much more confident person.
By the way, do not limit yourself. Be a child for a while. Imagine what you really want to achieve. Don't think about how hard it will be physically, mentally and financially to do so. Just remember your dream and imagine it as a goal.
For example, when I was a child, I really wanted to become a pilot. But due to vision problems, the dream remained a dream. So why not set a goal for yourself: "Fly a fighter." Yes, I understand that it is very difficult, but then why live if you cannot do what you want?
You don't have to set 50 important life goals. You can put 20, or you can put all 200. The most important thing is that you really want to implement them.
Below I will present a rough list of 50 life goals. I hope it helps you make your own list. After all, learning from examples is much easier.
- Buy an apartment in London;
- Visit all the capitals of the world;
- Feed the homeless;
- Create your own boarding school;
- Write a poem dedicated to my readers;
- Finish Harvard;
- To write a novel;
- Collect all the works of Blok in your personal library;
- Climb Everest;
- Travel around the world on a ship;
- Visit the North and South Pole;
- Read all Harry Potter books in English;
- Fly on a fighter;
- Jump with a parachute;
- Visit all your friends;
- Pull up a hundred times;
- Get 100,000 followers on twitter;
- Buy Mazda RX-8;
- Get 10,000 blog subscribers;
- Create your own online game;
- Star in the same film with Emma Watson;
- Play at the Bolshoi Theater;
- Donate a painting to the Tretyakov Gallery;
- Pet the tiger;
- Live in a Shaolin monastery
- Jump from the highest bungee in the world;
- Live in St. Petersburg for six months;
- Break the computer on the floor, walls and everything that is at hand;
- Get an MS in volleyball;
- Do the splits;
- Be in a hot spot;
- Read "War and Peace" by L.N. Tolstoy;
- Dance on the table;
- Achieve a stranger's smile without words;
- Soothe crying children;
- Take part in joint childbirth;
- Crack the scammer;
- Learn Japanese;
- Do a back flip;
- Kiss with a stranger;
- Wait until 12/21/12;
- Take a picture with the President of Russia;
- Visit "Eaglet" again;
- Open your own online store of goods for webmasters;
- Train the parrot to say "Dmitry Starkov Foreva";
- Change your own appearance beyond recognition;
- Create a rock band;
- Grow your own apple garden;
- Organize your own volleyball cup;
- Protect the girl from the attack of a bully;
By the way, for your convenience, when compiling 50 life goals for a person, I recommend using the following questions:
- What do I want to learn?
- How much free time do I want to have?
- What can I do to improve my health?
- Whom I want to become?
- Where do I want to go?
- What do I want to have?
- What do I want to do?
- What do I want to learn?
- How much do I want to earn, save and save?
I'll be putting together such a list myself in the near future. I think this lesson will take me quite a lot of time. Well, it's worth it.
After all, not everyone can come to the brain at once, some come over the years.
Each person has his own main goal in life, to which he aspires. Or even multiple targets. Throughout life, they can change: losing their importance, some are removed, and in their place others, more relevant, appear. How many of these goals should there be?
Successful people claim that 50 human life goals is not the maximum at all. The longer the list of your goals, the better you will be able to understand your true desires.
Lifetime success of John Goddard
For example, at the age of fifteen, John Goddard set himself not even 50 vital, main goals that he sought to achieve, but 127! For the uninitiated, reference: we are talking about a researcher, an anthropologist, a traveler, a holder of scientific degrees, a Member of the Society of French Explorers, the Royal Geographical Society and the Archaeological Society, and a multiple Guinness World Record holder. On his 50th birthday, John noted that he achieved 100 of the 127 goals he set. One can only envy his rich life.
Goals in order not to be ashamed and hurt
A happy person is called accomplished, successful. No one will call a loser happy - success is a component of happiness. Almost everyone remembers the famous phrase of Ostrovsky from “How to become tempered” about how you need to live your life. The end of the quote is especially bright: “So that it would not be excruciatingly painful ...” So that at the end of life it would not hurt and be ashamed of the aimlessly lived time, you need to set tasks for yourself today.
To consider life successful, a person must achieve the 50 most important life goals by old age. Summing up the results of his life, a person compares what he dreamed of with what he achieved. But it happens that over the years it is difficult to remember many of your desires-goals, so it is difficult to make comparisons. That is why it is so important to write down the 50 most important goals in life on a piece of paper, periodically re-read the list.
human needs
Before making a list, you should understand what is a priority, vital for a person. Air, drink, food, sleep are the 4 most important needs of organic life. The second row is health, housing, clothing, romance, rest - necessary attributes of life, but secondary. Unlike animals, a person is characterized not only by the elementary satisfaction of vital needs, he wants to do this, receiving aesthetic pleasure.
It is impossible for a person to live without satisfaction of primary needs, and without satisfaction of secondary needs it is difficult. Therefore, if at least one link in this chain is destroyed, a person suffers physically - firstly, morally - secondly. He is unhappy. But even if all the vital needs of the individual are satisfied, his life cannot be called happy. Here is such a paradox. Therefore, the 50 vital, priority goals of a person must necessarily include items, thanks to the implementation of which the primary and secondary needs of a person would be satisfied.
Listing such goals as “buy your own house” or “relax on the sea”, “do the necessary medical operation” or “cure and insert teeth”, “buy a fur coat” and “buy a car” may not be so important for complete happiness ( why - will be discussed below), but achieving them makes living on earth more comfortable for people. To meet these needs, to achieve the goals listed above, an individual needs money. And, selecting the 50 most important goals of a person, it is imperative to include an item on the list regarding the financial condition of the individual. Examples of such goals:
- find a high-paying job;
- open your business;
- to achieve that the business brings a net income of more than $ 10,000 per month, and the like.
Sample list of 50 goals
Spiritual self-improvement:
- Read the collected works of J. London.
- Complete an English course.
- Forgive insults to parents, friends.
- Stop being jealous.
- Increase personal efficiency by 1.5 times.
- Get rid of laziness and procrastination.
- Write at least 1,000 characters daily for your unfinished novel (personal blog).
- Reconcile with your sister (husband, mother, father).
- Go to church at least once a month.
Physical self-improvement:
- Go to the gym 3 times a week.
- Go to the sauna and pool weekly.
- Do a set of exercises daily in the morning;
- Walk every evening for at least half an hour at a brisk pace.
- Refuse completely from the list of harmful products.
- Once a quarter, arrange a three-day cleansing hunger strike.
- In three months, learn to sit on the twine.
- In winter, go skiing in the forest with your grandson (son, daughter, nephew).
- Lose 4 kilos.
- Soak in cold water in the morning.
Financial Goals:
- Raise your monthly income up to 100,000 rubles.
- Go to the level of passive income.
- Learn to play the stock market.
- Pay off your bank loan early.
- Entrust all housework to be done by machines in order to save time for earnings.
- Save on meaningless and harmful things: cigarettes, alcohol, sweets, chips, crackers.
- Products to buy in wholesale stores, everything except perishable.
- Buy a cottage for growing fresh organic products.
Comfort and pleasure:
Charity:
- Monthly deduct 10% of profits to the orphanage for gifts to children.
- Arrange for orphans a New Year's performance with gifts by the local theater - to finance.
- Do not pass by those who ask for alms - be sure to give alms.
- Help a shelter for homeless animals - deduct money for food for dogs.
- By the New Year, make a small present for all the kids in the stairwell.
- On the day of the elderly, give all pensioners a set of products.
- Large family to buy a computer.
- Give unwanted items to those in need.
- Build a playground in the yard.
- To help financially talented girl Tanya go to the competition in Moscow "Light your star".
Demand as the main component of happiness
In addition, for the full happiness of the individual, something else is necessary. And that "something" is called recognition. Only being in demand, a person feels his significance, feels pleasure, happiness. Each person has their own criteria for recognition. For some, a simple “thank you” for the prepared dinner is enough. Others feel a sense of complete happiness from the manifestations of tenderness of a sexual partner - this is a recognition, a highlight of the individual among all others.
For some, it is enough to bring sterile cleanliness in the house and hear words of admiration from neighbors, others need to see delight in the eyes of those they meet at the sight of their appearance, figure, outfits, hairstyles. For the third, it is important to recognize them as excellent parents. For the fourth, recognition at a wider level is necessary. These fourths do not limit the circle of people they want to be recognized by, relatives, loved ones, neighbors, fellow travelers, passers-by.
These are scientists, discoverers, big businessmen, people of creative and a number of other professions. The most successful are people who receive recognition from their loved ones, friends, children, neighbors, as well as from colleagues, fans, viewers, readers - a wider range of people. It is important to add the appropriate items to the list of "50 goals in my life." Examples of such goals might be:
- find your soul mate to create a family, which (who) will be such and such, for whom I will have respect, love (passion), feelings should be reciprocal;
- help your son finish school successfully;
- give children higher education;
- defend a thesis;
- release your own collection of stories (a CD of songs) or organize an exhibition of paintings.
The plot of "Life Goals":
intermediate goals
To achieve global goals, actions are needed to help move forward. Therefore, it is necessary to write intermediate goals related to advanced training, education, and the acquisition of skills. And in the list of "50 human life goals" examples of such can be:
- read the collected works of Dostoevsky;
- reading manuals for a businessman, authored by John Rockefeller (for example, "12 golden rules" of success;
- study of life stories and paths to success of major figures of science and culture;
- studying of foreign language;
- obtaining a second education.
This list can be continued at your own discretion, based on the main goals.
Goals-motivators
In order to achieve the main goals, incentives are needed that occupy the position of intermediate goals. They are included in the list, designating; "50 Intermediate Human Life Goals". These goals include:
- take a trip around the world;
- buy a new laptop;
- make repairs in the apartment;
- Refresh your wardrobe for the new season.
Some may write the items "do a facelift" or "do a tummy tuck". After all, for many, improving their appearance is a hidden desire, which they are sometimes ashamed of. But when compiling a list of motivating goals, you must definitely write those that will give a person pleasure in life. These goals do not have important vital needs, but without joy and pleasure a person withers, he is bored with life, the meaning of achieving the main goals is lost.
Charity is the most important human goal
Studying the path to success of John the Rockefellers, one sees: he is a philanthropist. Donating a tenth of the profits to charity is the main rule of his life. According to psychologists, helping people is useful and extremely pleasant. Therefore, in the "50 vital goals", making a list, you should include items related to this side of life. By doing charity, one enjoys receiving recognition.
Even doing good incognito, he is satisfied by observing the fruits of his good deeds. Performing charitable acts should be included in the list of vital goals. "50 charitable goals in life" in the general list may have the items "build a shelter for abandoned animals", "open a kindergarten for disabled children", "regularly provide material assistance to an orphanage" and others.
Here you can also write smaller specific goals, for example, “give 100 flannel diapers to the Baby House” or “bring a weekly ration to an old neighbor for free, supposedly from social security”. Having made a list of 50 life goals, a person receives a plan of action in life, sees what he needs to achieve, what to strive for.
Jun 19, 2015 tigress…s