1. Do you often think about the impact your actions have on others?
a) very rarely;
c) quite often;
d) very often.
2. Do you happen to say something that you yourself do not believe, because of stubbornness, in defiance of others, or for "prestigious" reasons?
3. Which of the following qualities do you value most in people?
a) persistence
b) breadth of thinking;
c) showiness, the ability to show oneself.
4. Do you have a penchant for pedantry?
5. Do you quickly forget about the troubles that happen to you?
6. Do you like to analyze your actions?
7. Being in a circle of people you know well:
b) be yourself.
8. Getting Started difficult task Do you try not to think about the difficulties that await you?
9. Which of the following definitions do you think best fits you?
a) a dreamer
b) "shirt-guy";
c) diligent in work;
d) punctual, accurate;
e) "philosopher" in the broadest sense of the word;
e) a vain person.
10. If, in the heat of a controversy, your opponent "breaks loose" and makes a personal attack against you, what will you do?
a) answer him in the same tone;
b) ignore this fact;
c) defiantly take offense;
d) offer to take a break.
11. If your work is rejected, it will cause you:
a) annoyance;
12. If you get into a mess, who do you blame first?
a) himself;
b) "fatal" bad luck;
c) other "objective" circumstances.
13. Don't you think that the people around you - whether they are leaders, colleagues or subordinates - underestimate your abilities and knowledge?
14. If your friends or colleagues start teasing you, then you:
a) get mad at them
b) try to retreat;
c) without being irritated, you begin to play along with them;
d) answer with laughter and, as they say, "zero attention";
e) make an indifferent look and even smile, but in your heart you are indignant.
15. After finishing the argument, do you continue to conduct it mentally, bringing more and more arguments in defense of your point of view?
Response evaluation table
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Calculate your total points.
Below 14 points. Alas, you are a weak person, unbalanced and, perhaps, carefree. They are ready to blame anyone for the troubles that happen to you, but not themselves. It is difficult to rely on you both in friendship and in work.
14 –23 points. You have a fairly strong character. You have a realistic outlook on life, but not all of your actions are equal. You also have breakdowns and delusions. You are conscientious and quite tolerant in the team. And yet you have something to think about in order to get rid of some of the shortcomings, because you can do it.
24–30 points. You are one of the persistent people and have a sufficient sense of responsibility. Value your own judgments, but also consider the opinions of others. You correctly navigate in emerging situations and in most cases you know how to choose the right solution. Avoid narcissism and always remember: strong does not mean tough.
Over 30 points. Perhaps such a sum of points is the result of a not entirely objective assessment of one's actions and behavior? I just can’t believe that there are people with such an ideal character. And if there is, then they simply have nothing to recommend.
How the strong man different from weak? Now we are not talking about physical strength and endurance. With the proper degree of perseverance, almost anyone can cultivate these qualities in themselves. It is much more difficult to become a strong person psychologically. And is it possible?
Strong man: what is he?
A strong person is what many want to be in life. It is believed that such a person will be able to get settled and achieve what he wants. How he does it is not so important, the priority is the result. At the same time, a strong personality is characterized as cruel and rude, unshakable in judgments. And at heart a strong person can be a fluffy kitten. Not everyone knows him closely, they judge by external manifestations the strength of the spirit.
But what about the psychology of a strong man? She is characterized by the following:
It may seem that with strong personality It is not easy to be, live or work nearby. In fact, such a person is an example for others. Looking at it, you can understand that moving in the direction of a dream and achieving a result is a must. You can learn a lot from a strong person. The main thing is to understand this and be able to see the advantages of other people.
Portrait of a weak man
A weak person is the same strong one, but with a minus sign. That is, he is the opposite. Yes and no. There are signs by which a psychologically weak person can be easily identified in his environment. To do this, analyze the behavior of friends. Or perhaps something from this list is about you?
- A weak person complains more and more often than other people. Life is like a roller coaster with ups and downs. But even being at the top, a weak person complains about his existence, finding a reason for this. And instead of trying to get out of a difficult situation and solve problems, he talks about the difficulties to others, regardless of their opinion and desire to listen, or lack thereof. This pushes people away from the weak person and brings in another reason to complain.
- A weak person does not seek to get out of his comfort zone. He is afraid life changes even if they promise only the best. Vegetating in a routine, he builds a life. He thinks it's safer, feels secure, even if in fact it isn't.
- A weak person does not take into account the opinions of others. Yes, you should live your life the way you want to. But to be able to find a reasonable grain in the opinions and statements of other people is very important. To a certain extent, listening to others is worth it. This gives impetus to the development and improvement of one's own personality.
- A weak man surrenders without a fight. This is perhaps the most obvious sign of a psychologically weak personality. This is expressed not only in the inability to complete what has been started, but also in the lack of perseverance. A strong person forgets that success does not come to those who have not done anything to achieve the result.
- A weak person is envious of other people. He does not achieve the desired himself and those who have succeeded. But each person has his own, the circumstances of his achievement are not the same. Instead of biting your nails with envy, you should find your own way.
- A weak person gets angry. Of course, not a single person can live without manifestations of anger. But what is the object to which this anger is directed? If this is anger at yourself for not being able to achieve something, it will most likely lead you on the right path to self-improvement. But if it's anger at circumstances, other people who got it right, where will it lead? It's impossible to never get angry. But unjustified destructive feelings break a person from the inside.
- A weak person tends to be dramatic. He talks about how hard it is for him to cope with life's troubles, characterizes his life in a negative way. They say about such people that they are pessimists, because they do not see the light ahead. But negative mental projections are superimposed on life, leave an imprint on the present and future of a person, and this cannot be avoided.
It is possible to understand how a strong person differs from a weak one without resorting to an in-depth analysis of the personality. There is an ordinary, worldly understanding of "strength" and "weakness". However, it may differ from different people, and the category definition occurs.
How can a weak person become stronger?
There are no hopeless people. If you want to become stronger, everyone can. Get rid of your shortcomings should be gradual. To do this, focus on the advice of psychologists.
Remember that there are no exceptionally strong or weak people. We are all strong in our own way, but sometimes we need support and understanding. Therefore, a strong person is not alone. He helps loved ones and is not afraid to ask for reciprocity if he needs it.
Business psychology Morozov Alexander Vladimirovich
Quiz #12 DO YOU HAVE A STRONG CHARACTER?
DO YOU HAVE A STRONG CHARACTER?
To calculate points and determine your result, use the following "key":
1. "a" -0, "b" -1, "c" -2;
2. "yes" -0, "no" -1;
3. "a" - 1, "b" -1, "c" -0;
4. "yes" -2, "no" -0;
5. "yes" -0, "no" -2;
6. "yes" - 2, "no" - 0;
7. "a" - 2, "b" - 0;
8. "yes" -0, "no" -2;
9. "a" - 0, "b" - 1, "c" - 3, "d" - 2, "e" - 2, "e" - 0;
10. "a" - 2, "b" - 0, "c" - 0, "d" - 0;
11. "a" - 0, "b" - 1, "c" - 2, "d" - 0;
12. "a" - 0, "b" - 2, "c" - 1, "d" - 3;
13. "a" -2, "b" -1, "c" -0;
14. "a" - 2, "b" - 0, "c" - 0;
15. "yes" -0, "no" -2;
16. "a" - 0, "b" - 1, "c" - 2, "d" - 0, "e" - 0;
17. "a" - 2, "b" - 0, "c" - 1;
18. "a" - 1, "b" - 0, "c" - 2;
19. "yes" - 0, "no" - 2;
20. "a" -0, "b" -1, "c" -2;
Less than 15 points - alas, you are a weak person, not balanced and, perhaps, carefree. They are ready to blame anyone but themselves for the troubles that happen to you. Both in friendship and in work, you are difficult to rely on (think about it!).
From 15 to 25 points - you have a fairly solid character. You have a realistic outlook on life, but not all of your actions are equal. You have both breakdowns and delusions. You are conscientious and quite tolerant in the team. And yet you still have something to think about to get rid of some of the shortcomings (you can be sure that you can do it!).
From 26 to 38 points - you belong to the number of people who are persistent and have a sufficient sense of responsibility. Value your judgments, but also consider the opinions of others. You correctly navigate in emerging situations and in most cases you know how to choose the right solution. This indicates that you have strong character traits. Avoid only narcissism and always remember: strong does not mean cruel.
Over 38 points - I'm sorry, but it's hard for you to say anything definite. Why? Because I just can’t believe that there are people with such an ideal character. Or maybe such a sum of points is the result of a not entirely objective assessment of one's actions and behavior?
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Test "Are you a strong woman": questions
When some trouble or problem happens, how do you react?
A strong woman is:
A. A man in a skirt! (Or just a silly thing that drags everything on itself.)
B. Me! A strong woman is a standard to strive for.
B. This is the one that, if necessary, can withstand any test with honor.
When was the last time you cried?
A. Today (or yesterday). In other words, this week.
B. When I was 15 years old! And now I'm a big girl. Big girls don't cry!
Q. I'm not a crybaby, I don't cry more than once a month. But I don't think there's anything wrong with crying.
Test "Are you a strong woman": results
You have more answers. You're just a greenhouse rose. However, there is nothing wrong with that! You emotional person and you do not like to keep feelings and experiences in yourself. Indeed, it is better not to accumulate resentment and feelings, but to get rid of them in time.
But be careful: try not to overdramatize the situation. Otherwise, you risk turning from an emotional girl into an ordinary hysteric. Look at life easier, and everything will be fine!
Do you have more answers?. You are a real iron lady. Nothing seems to upset or break you. You are definitely a strong woman. But think about it, don't you often come into conflict with the outside world and people?
Many situations and problems could be resolved much faster and easier if you tried to solve them without gritting your teeth, but with a calm smile. Stop fighting with the whole world, and your life will immediately become easier. The more often you smile, enjoy life and believe in yourself, the less often you will have to apply your legendary power and fighting qualities.
Do you have more answers?. You are a smart woman! And you are so wise that you don't even have to use force. You manage to build your life in such a way that all problems are solved as if by themselves. Your optimism helps you move forward easily and effortlessly. If necessary, of course, you can show yourself as a strong woman, but if you continue to be the same positive person, then it is likely that you will no longer need to fight. Keep up the good work!
What is a character? These are the properties that a person is endowed with, manifested in his behavior and attitude towards people around him and the environment as a whole.
It is worth noting that in many ways the character of a person is connected with his fate, more precisely, the fate of a person affects how successfully he adapts to changing living conditions.
And what kind of person is called the owner of a strong character? A person with a strong character is persistent, he has willpower and knows how to achieve his goals.
Do you have a strong character and can you realistically assess the situation? Or perhaps you are short-tempered, shy, or calm?
If you pass the following character test, you will be able to find out what kind of character you are, understand yourself better and give yourself a chance to succeed by improving what you lack by eliminating shortcomings:
Personality Test
1. You received a letter not addressed to you (the postman mistakenly put a letter intended for your neighbor in your mailbox). How will you do it?
a) you will throw it away because it is of no value to you (0 points);
b) you will read the letter (carefully open it, then seal it up), and then drop it into the neighbor's mailbox (1 point);
in) you immediately go up to the neighbor and give her the letter, saying that it came to you by mistake (2 points).
2. Do you tend to think about how your actions will affect others?
a) yes (2 points);
b) no (0 points);
in) sometimes (1 point).
3. Have you ever said something that you yourself do not believe, for example, out of stubbornness or for other reasons?
a) yes (0 points);
b) no (2 points);
in) this happened only 1-2 times (1 point).
4. Do you tend to analyze your actions?
a) no (0 points);
b) yes (2 points);
in) sometimes (1 point).
5. If you are offered a highly paid job, but at the same time it will be of little interest to you personally, will you accept this offer?
a) no, for you, work is something that should not only be interesting, but also bring joy (2 points);
b) yes, and you won't even think about it (0 points);
in) you will agree, but you will think that you deserve better in terms of interest in your position (1 point).
6. Imagine that you are walking in the park. You see that little hooligans are mocking a bird whose wing is broken. What is your reaction?
a) you will pass by (0 points);
b) you drive away the evil boys (2 points);
in) you will try to help the bird (1 point).
7. When you're with people you know well, you...
a) try to behave as you have proven yourself in this circle (1 point);
b) being yourself (2 points).
8. In a circle of acquaintances, you heard a story that you know. How will you do it?
a) you listen carefully to the story again (2 points);
b) you will interrupt the speaker and take the lead of the narrator (1 point);
in) you will tell those present that you have known this story for a long time (0 points).
9. Do you think about the difficulties you may have to face when you start a difficult task?
a) sometimes (1 point);
b) no (0 points);
in) always (2 points).
10. When discussing various issues in the company of colleagues, you ...
a) agree with the majority opinion (0 points);
b) express your point of view, despite the fact that the opinion of the majority is fundamentally different from your own opinion (2 points);
in) remain silent if you realize that your opinion differs from what the majority of the participants in the discussion think (1 point).
11. Your immediate supervisor unexpectedly called you into his office. What will you feel?
a) anxiety (0 points);
b) concern (1 point);
in) indifference (2 points).
12. If the authorities "wrap up" your project, will you experience anger or annoyance?
a) anger (1 point);
b) annoyance (2 points).
13. Do you sometimes feel that management underestimates you?
a) yes (0 points);
b) no (2 points).
14. Who would you take as your assistant if you were assigned to perform an urgent task?
a) gifted and initiative person (1 point);
b) executive and obligatory person (2 points);
in) a person who has knowledge in a field relevant to the task you have been assigned, but tends to argue (0 points).
Let's summarize:
23-28 points- you are a persistent girl with a sufficient sense of responsibility. You never retreat, you always express your point of view, but at the same time you take into account what other people think on a particular issue. Whatever the situation arises, you are guided correctly in it, and in most cases you manage to accept the right decision. And all this in general indicates that you have a strong character. But do not forget just one thing: being strong does not mean being too tough.
11-22 points- you have a fairly strong character: your actions and outlook on life are equivalent - they are realistic. You can be called conscientious and tolerant in the team, but you still have flaws that need to be eliminated (you know about them).
5-10 points- judging by your answers, you are a rather carefree person and probably weak-willed. But even if you are not a person with a strong character, do not despair: character can be developed and strong-willed qualities can be cultivated in yourself. But for this, of course, you will need to make a lot of effort.
0-4 points- unfortunately, people like you are called weak-willed persons. You are unlikely to achieve much success in your career because of your lack of focus. If you get into trouble or have trouble completing tasks at work, you blame it on anyone but yourself. It is likely that friends and colleagues find it difficult to rely on you, because having promised something, you often do not fulfill your obligations. Think about it and try to change.
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